Interesting topic right? 😀
Before we start, let me ask you something. Have you ever gossiped about others? Or Have you ever become a victim of gossip?
Barely does anyone agree that they gossip. After all, have you ever heard a thief saying ‘I am a thief”? For the other question, obviously you may have a lot of stories to narrate, isn’t it?
Gossip generally means:
- Talking negative things about people when they are not around.
- Spreading rumors about people.
Gossiping takes different shapes and forms depending upon the types of gossipers. So let us take a trip around our society and find out the type of gossipers that exist.
1.The Innocent Gossiper
Every gossiper is innocent in the beginning. These are the random people who happen to take a seat in the midst of Expert Gossipers (EG). As of such they do not have any idea about what EGs are discussing about. But some how, they also get a membership in the community and start contributing. The EG community is smart enough to train such random people who do not have control over their minds.
They use only two words initially:
“is it?……… oh, is it?……. I see…… oh, really?”
2. The Disclaimer Gossiper
These people try to play a safe game. They always put disclaimers and a reference in their statement.
” See, I do not know anything about this OK, I heard Mr/Mrs x say so”
3. The Neglected Adviser
Knowledge is power. Sharing is caring. There are some people in the society who knows everything in this universe. Also it is not possible for them to stay away from advising you. If you ignore these knowledgeable babas, this is what they say when something goes wrong in your life:
“I told you not to do that course, see now you are Jobless.”
“I was sure this is going to happen, but you always ignore my words.”
The only problem with these people are that they just could not figure out what is happening in their own life. But they are well updated with every other’s life.
4. The Spy
Beware of these people. They will attack you with so many questions. They are the ones running short of news to broadcast on their channel. You are their present target. The questions will follow with some advise and stories they have collected from other sources so that you feel like they are concerned for you.
“Are you dating some one?”
“Why are you not getting married?”
“Why are you not having kids?”
Whatever you answer them will be broadcasted on their gossip channels adding some extra spice to it.
5. The Creepy Gossiper
These are a set of seriously annoying people. They can gossip about anything under the Sun. They can’t stand;
- People achieving any sort of success in life.
- Any one having a conversation with opposite gender.
- Any sort of dressing style different from theirs.
- People having good relationships with others.
Well, these are some types of gossipers I found around me till date. What kind of people have you come across?
If you are thinking that gossiping is the trademark of women, you need to update your General Knowledge thoroughly. Just like women, men also gossip. And again if you are thinking gossips happen among less educated groups or so, you are once again mistaken. Even highly educated people spread gossips.
Now it is time to analyze, what could be the possible reasons behind gossiping?
1.To Feel Satisfied
Gossip is a passion for some people. They get a kind of self satisfaction while criticizing others.
2. To Get Over Insecurities
Most of the time gossiping is done to hide their own fears and insecurities. When people see others achieving something which they wished to but couldn’t, the best way they choose to hide their insecurities is gossip.
3. To Spoil Relationships
It may be the time when they have a bad day with their friends, partners, neighbors etc. Now whenever they see some one else happy in their relationships, what could be the best way other than spreading a gossip, to break them?
4. To Feel Important
They think they become important to the other person when they contribute a gossip. Without thinking of the further consequences, they keep blabbering just to feel important among people. A sense of heroism peeps into them while doing so.
5. Scarcity of Topics
Some people do not know that there is an option to remain silent when you have nothing to discuss. But they just want to keep going. And when there is nothing productive to discuss, gossip always comes handy.
How do you feel when you hear a gossip about you?
Do share in the comment section below.
See you soon with another post. Till then stay happy 🙂